The Joy of Threesomes.

Have you ever considered having a threesome? If yes, then you could be on the way to a seriously good time, but it does depend on how you go about it! It will also depend on the strength of your relationship, level of trust you both have and the person you intend to do it with!

Threesomes are generally based on two females and a male, or two males and a female, they could include some level of bisexuality, or could be entirely heterosexual, where the two, focus on the one, for maximum pleasures.

There is something a little naughty and exciting about a threesome and with the right person, it is fun and fulfilling for everyone involved. Personally, my partner and I love threesomes, although, I will say, regular threesomes with the same person/persons, is far better, than a one off with a stranger.

Just as everything evolves with time, so do sex and relationships, the longer you see your threesome partner, the more you understand each other and what everyone finds comfortable, or enjoys.  Let me say though, whatever way you enter into a threesome, an extra pair of hands, mouth, tongue and sexual organs, does make for a much more interesting time!

Personally, I love treating my wife to a threesome and although I am straight, I love to see her getting pumped hard by another man, especially if he is more well hung than me. I also love the results, that is, after a threesome, she stays horny for weeks and I get amazing sex and a happy wife!

On occassion we have also had a female friend join us too, where they both treat me to a double helping of fun, nope, I see nothing wrong with threesomes!

Bisexual Threesomes.

If there is some form of Bisexuality involved in your threesome, this can bring extra benefits too, my friends wife is bisexual and often includes her Girlfriend in their weekend bed sessions. They have been doing this for years and boast that they have the most amazing sex ever, I believe them ! 

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Another couple I have met, have regular threesomes with another man, to satisfy his bisexual desires. I guess when you are Bisexual, this is like a dream come true, although, she also enjoys the attentions of both men too! She has even come to enjoy watching her husband take anal sex and often dons a strap-on to take a turn herself! 

Then there is a Gay male couple I know, that regularly take men home with them (often married, Closet Bi Guys), to enjoy the presence of another during a rampant session. Yep, there are many reasons why people choose to have threesomes! 

Threesomes can Spice things back up! 

Something we often find hard to admit to our partner, is that we have become a little bored of them, maybe our eyes have started to wander again, the "buzz" has faded. When people get bored this way, it always affect the sex life too and often causes cheating and affairs. 

I am not saying the love has always gone, but sex with the same person for a long period of time, all to often does become boring and so, less and less frequent too! Sometime people try all sorts to enhance the sex in the relationship, from toys to kinks, but threesomes are often hard to bring up! 

The buzz of introducing someone new into the relationship, especially the bed, is similar to the buzz you get when you meet a new partner for the first time. Except, this time, you share it with your long term partner, which in turn, creates sexual energy that lasts long after your threesome partner has gone home! 

Allowing your partner the excitement of an extra lover, is an amazing thing to do and can be a delight to everyone, once, that is, the initial nerves are overcome!

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The Issues of threesomes!

After all the good points I have told you about threesomes, I guess I should warn you of the bad points too, what could go wrong?

Unlike swinging, where people meet other couples, threesomes often do include a single person, if your relationship is not based on solid grounds, Jealousy and other negative emotions could cause a major problem! If you or your partner are naturally jealous, then a threesome may not be a good idea for you, jealousy is the biggest relationship killer! 

Then too are the issues of sexual infections, accidental pregnancy, all to often not considered in the heat of passion during a threesome! Having a threesome with someone you know and trust is far better, but of course, it's hard to approach your friends for a fuck! 

Meeting strangers for a threesome often just makes it more difficult, even if in some cases its the only way. Visitng a social atmosphere such as a swingers party, as a couple, can sometimes make is easier, but check they also allow single people, if it is a threesome you are really after. 

Yep, like everything in life, threesomes can be both good and bad, can go right or wrong, but in general, fucking your new friends together is pretty dam horny! If you are a couple looking to try a threesome, are not jealous and love to see your partner at the far heights of pleasure, then, give it a go! 

In general, threesomes are much better than having an open relationship, where one of the party is left on their own, wondering what is happening. In a threesome, everyone becomes involved and can enjoy the excitment together.

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